It's one of the most common things women struggle with when it comes to dating. They'll take things slow and make him wait, but it seems like regardless of what a girl can do, the guy disappears right after sex. Why is this and how can this be stopped? One man offers his explanation.
Dating coach @ezdatingcoach gives the scoop on the vanishing act men pull when it comes to sex and dating.
What he's saying is true, as difficult as it may be to hear. Men tend to bond with a woman more during sex and women prefer to bond after sex. However, that doesn't give him any excuses to pull away as soon as the deed is done. It means that women need to communicate their needs and require those needs to be met for the relationship to continue.
So, many people have watched this man's take and viewers have thoughts. User @monilex5 says, "Because it was a Wam Bam thank you Mam!! Don’t make excuses Sir." Fair enough! On a similar note, commenter @djbelle confirms, "They’re just using you for sex. If he truly love you they won’t disappear after sex. The conversation is still there." Finally, @veronika_vistica shares, "My body and intimacy are sacred to me I tell them straight up, no. If they’re not interested in my boundary and respecting me oh well moving on."
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